Disclaimer: This post is meant not as offense to those who do not embrace Calvinism, but it does intend to attack Arminianism as a system of thought.
I hate Arminianism. Let me tell you why.
Arminianism portrays God as this all-loving, sentimental, grandfather in the sky type of god who loves everyone equally, but is devoted to no one. He has no special love for his bride, the church. After all, god loves all equally and alike, and jesus died for everybody equally and alike, and, although all of a sudden, god intervenes to keep those who truly belong to him (for some Arminians), they cooperated with the holy spirit in regeneration, since faith precedes regeneration.
I love Calvinism. Let me tell you why.
Calvinism portrays God as the Ephesians 5 Husband, Who is devoted to His Bride, the Church. Although He has a general love for all mankind, He has a special, sovereign, saving love for His elect, the Church. He is devoted to Her entirely, and to no one else, even as a husband is to be devoted to his wife alone, and to no other woman. In fact, God is so devoted to His Bride, the elect, that He sees to it that they not only come to faith, but that they are sanctified, and that they persevere, and He feeds us with His Word and cleans us in baptism and feeds us again in His body and blood in the Holy Supper. Jesus gave Himself for His Bride alone, because He is the Faithful Husband. His Name is Faithful and True. He is faithful even when we are faithless, because He cannot disown Himself.
This is the kind of God who shows me what it is to be a faithful husband. I love my wife. In my eyes, she can do nothing wrong. But when we have an argument, I try to remember that God is faithful to me even when I am not all that enjoyable to be around. God teaches me to love my wife, even in the midst of an argument.
This is because the God of the Bible is the God that the systematic theology known as Calvinism, highlighted in the Reformed faith, portrays biblically and beautifully.
If today you are struggling with sin, if today you are unfaithful to God, if today you are not persevering as you should, know this:
God is Faithful, and He is committed to you for His glory. Even when you don't feel it, even when you've had a day full of sin, know this:
God will sanctify you and preserve you.
When we are faithless, He is faithful, for He cannot disown Himself.